This is an artificial intelligence which in all areas of what is now seen as 'human intelligence' approaches this, then surpasses it. After that, it will keep growing exponentially. In the meantime, at relatively short notice, humanity will encounter a challenging A.I. bi-bottleneck: 1) humans possibly misusing A.I. in a big way, and 2) A.I. spiraling into many directions of which any unfortunate one may be enough for disaster.Will we control A.I. or will A.I. dominate us? Let's hope this is the wrong question. Because if it's the right question, and given enough time, there is no shred of a doubt about the answer. Still, of course, we need to give it our best shot not to be dominated by an evil force. We should strive for control. At the same time, transcending the question opens up the domain of Compassion. This gradually makes thinking in terms of 'control' and 'domination' in human - A.I. interactions obsolete. We will together strive for a better world within an alignment of our values.But what are the real human values? There are cultural and individual differences.